Friday OT #2 What has surprised you about getting older?

Buster28

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I waited a long time for my vision to start going a bit, but it's just been in the last couple of years that I have to hold small print stuff at arm's length to read it. Otherwise, no contacts, no glasses. I don't ever remember my dad without at least reading glasses and mom has always had problems in one eye that's gotten nothing but worse over the years. So, I suppose that I made it 40+ years with no vision assistance is pretty good.

It seems like the little (relatively speaking) health things that sneak up on you are becoming more frequent these days. Mostly pulled muscle-type things, but it seems like more of a laundry list of stuff to discuss with my doctor when I go. He's the same age as me, so we tend to commiserate over the same issues.

I still listen to the same music I grew up with. Always thought mom was weird for playing 60s and 70s era R&B records when I was a kid, but bought very little new stuff. But I still do the same. There's hardly anything current that I find listenable on the radio. So, I make a CD every few months with stuff I don't get sick of hearing for my car. Radio? What's that?

Also, I remember my grandmother saying she was always amazed how quickly time passes as you get older. I always thought, "yeah, right." Totally true! While the individual days might go a bit slowly, the weeks and months zoom by. Next thing you know, you're halfway to 90 and wondering where all those years went. It's very strange when the passage of time becomes something tangible instead of more abstract as it always seemed to be when I was younger. Nothing ever got here quickly enough. Every hour dragged on. Something happening six months from now might as well have been 50 years away. It's definitely interesting to ponder how the perception of time changes with age.
 

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I was at my 40th class reunion this summer. I kept thinking, "all these people look like they should be their parents."

I thought the same thing at my last reunion. I think the smokers and heavy drinking plays a part in it.

I am 63 and don't really have even much gray hair, gifted genes from my mother, but my left and right forehead seems to be enlarging! I think not being bald and not being fat makes me a little younger looking than I am but if I look close I can sometimes see my dad's old man face looking back at me from the mirror particularly if I am sporting some gray beard stubble. I don't feel like an old soul but my "dad's reflection" does give me pause since I remember thinking decades ago that my dad was starting to like like his dad. Damn!
 

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Already said, but how easy it is to get hurt and how hard it is to recover.

I'm typing this in the doctor's office. Third time I've been here this month. Used to go about every five years.
 

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What surprises me is that despite the body not recovering as well, not being able to drive the car for hours upon hours at end without my leg and hip screaming at me and not being able to read anything approaching fine print anymore I still feel like a kid. I will often think of myself as the young guy in the room and then really look around the room to realize that I am probably 10 years older than everyone else.

Screw that, I'm still a kid.
 

oldman

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Probably the best thing about getting older is that it means you didn't die young and miss the great ride that is life.

Worst thing about getting older is losing your parents. Nobody tells you how horrible that will be. On the other hand, I probably wouldn't have believed it, even if I had been told.

I still have both of my parents, but it's hard to see them slowing down. The same with my in-laws, who I dearly love. You know they aren't going to be around forever, and we've become great friends.
 

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I think the thing that has surprised me the most is how fast time flies now. Seems I blink and a week has gone by. I'm sure it has a lot to do with this, but also the fact that I haven't been bored in probably 10 years. It's seems like as a kid, I was always scrambling, trying to stay busy and do something fun. Now fun is being able to kick back and do nothing for a couple of hours. Then again, I do enjoy the work that I do. Sometimes I wonder if I should switch to a job that I had to make the days go by longer. Most days, I look up and it's 5:00.
 

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Biggest thing is taking care of parents that are divorced. One to the other. I'm on meds now for anxiety and depression........But, I'M FEELING MUCH BETTER now.
 

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Well I'm 45, and yeah the whole nose hair thing is really annoying. I try to work out 3-4 times a week, sometimes more. I don't do the health club thing, I've just acquired through the years enough workout equipment that i just do it in my basement. One thing I've noticed is that if I really have an intense workout, the next morning I feel like a dump truck has run over me, and sometimes the feeling lasts a couple of days. Also the younger generation just seems to not really give a crap what a guy my age has to say. I'm 45 for ******'s sake not freaking 90. Still have got alot of good years left. Anybody older out there, just keep gettin after it.
 

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5-6 hours of sleep is enough (used to be 10-12 in college)
Metabolism finally started slowing down
Recovery time from injuries and drinking is much longer

Considering how much of a music freak I was, I can't believe I've lost the desire to stay current with the music scene and going to concerts. I still listen to new stuff, but I'm far from current.

It's hard to want to go to a concert knowing that I could be a parent to a good portion of them. It also sucks because I spent so many hours in the pit yelling and screaming, I know my younger self would make fun of older me sitting in the seats. I was in a mosh pit when I was 34 and got laid out by some young buck. He helped me up and I kept going but the combination of that hit and alcohol pretty much made that next morning hell.
 

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Originally Posted by CloneIce
I was in the pool. There was shrinkage!
Do women know about shrinkage?

Borrowed this from another thread today. Good question.
 

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One thing that surprised me was how little I knew when I was young. At 43, I can look back 20 years ago and realize I really didn't know ****. I can even look back 10 years and realize I didn't know as much as I thought. I have a feeling in 10 years I'll realize the same thing.
 

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Already said, but how easy it is to get hurt and how hard it is to recover.

I'm typing this in the doctor's office. Third time I've been here this month. Used to go about every five years.
I used to go to the doctor's office about once in fifteen years and then only when I had to. I avoided all health care facilities; doctor's offices, hospitals, nursing homes, hospice, etc. Now for the last ten years we've had elderly parents, in-laws, etc. whom we've had to take to Dr. appoints, visit them in hospitals, etc, etc. So I've become very accustomed to being around doctors and nurses and hospitals. I never thought I'd get used to that!
 

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I thought the same thing at my last reunion. I think the smokers and heavy drinking plays a part in it.

I am 63 and don't really have even much gray hair, gifted genes from my mother, but my left and right forehead seems to be enlarging! I think not being bald and not being fat makes me a little younger looking than I am but if I look close I can sometimes see my dad's old man face looking back at me from the mirror particularly if I am sporting some gray beard stubble. I don't feel like an old soul but my "dad's reflection" does give me pause since I remember thinking decades ago that my dad was starting to like like his dad. Damn!

Mine is extra chins. My grandfather and father both had double chins and now I see it on half my brothers and sister - and me, too. Of course losing a few more pounds would help but the hereditary component will not be denied.
 

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At 65, I no longer have patience with idiots. TV, other than college football and basketball, is something other people watch. Movies--what's a movie? I no longer care what others think about me. Others are welcome to do whatever as long as they do not try to involve me or force me to pay for their stupidity. I have worked the last 40 some years for others and will be soon marching to my own schedule and drummer. Getting a senior citizen's discount is a real hoot. All I did was outlive any realistic expectations for myself.
 

coolerifyoudid

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Realizing how selfish I was when I was younger. It's kinda weird because I always thought I was a really giving and unselfish person growing up, but I was really selfish about a lot of things.

Admittedly, having a kid sped that realization along.
 

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I'm not even that old. Just mid 30s. But I'm amazed out how easy it is to hurt my lower back and how long it takes to recover from any kind of injury.

This. Exactly this. I'm 31. It hasn't happened in a little while (and I'm sure it doesn't help I hurt my back in football in school) but even sleeping on it wrong can put me out of commission for two or even three weeks.

Also, I can't drink like I used to. I used to never get hangovers, but if I even drink as few as four beers, I'm waking with a headache the next day.
 

Clonefan32

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How hard it is to sleep through the night.

This is me exactly, and I'm not all that old. Anymore, I'm lucky to only wake up and mill around 2-3 times per night. Some of it is the fault of my kids, but I think I'd be up a time or two even without them.
 

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I think the thing that has surprised me the most is how fast time flies now. Seems I blink and a week has gone by. I'm sure it has a lot to do with this, but also the fact that I haven't been bored in probably 10 years. It's seems like as a kid, I was always scrambling, trying to stay busy and do something fun. Now fun is being able to kick back and do nothing for a couple of hours. Then again, I do enjoy the work that I do. Sometimes I wonder if I should switch to a job that I had to make the days go by longer. Most days, I look up and it's 5:00.

This is entirely to do with the fact that each successive year is less of a % of your existence. At 10 years old a year was 10% of your life, at 45 it is only 2.2% of your life. Things will only seem to get faster until the end...:sad:
 

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