I am sure I will get ripped for the following. I would like to preface this with the fact that I am only 22.
I think today's athletes are soft. I don't mean softer, I mean soft. They are raised with everyone kissing their *** and as soon as someone gets on them they feel they are abused. In my high school sports, I was never yelled at or spoken to in a strong tone. I wish I would have been. There is certainly a way to do this without abusing someone, but I think abuse is used far too widely today. I feel as long as it is not an attack on the person it is not abuse. In Manginos case, a player was allegedly laughing and goofing around during a walkthrough. If this is the case, what should have happened? That is a sign of disrespect to someone who has given you a chance to go to college for free. The kids coming into big time athletic programs today are not the same. They now have egos. They think they are really something and when someone gets on them, they are instantly shocked that someone could to anything but compliment them. That is BS.
This. I'm not going to rip on you at all. In fact, I'm going to give you a lot of praise for recognizing this at the young age of 22.
For a while now, self-esteem development has been the most important and most effective function of our educational system. For a number of years now, kids have been told that they are the smartest and best people in the world because they can walk ten feet in a straight line without falling down. Okay, maybe that's pushing it, but kids these days are singing (in the tune of Freres Jacque) "I am special, I am special, look at me, look at me" in pre-school. Narcissism is getting bigger and bigger every day in contemporary society. I actually got a book for my birthday (that I admittedly haven't started yet) called "The Narcissism Epidemic" explaining the root causes of the problem and all of the negative effects of this overwhelming narcissism and "self-esteem" development on society.
I think that when you hear about players complaining to their mommies and daddies about coaches "coaching" and "being mean" you see the effects of what I'm writing about. Kids these days don't know how to take criticism positively because they've never been criticized before in their life! Now if there was/is physical abuse or even verbal abuse (and there's a fine line) that's a different story. But it sounds like some of these athletes could also be spoiled whiners as well.
Don't get me wrong. I do beleive in positive self-esteem, but it needs to be GENUINELY EARNED. Not handed out for free like friggin' Halloween candy.