It caused a big 'ole fight in my son's high school about a year ago. It seems that some black people consider the term quite derogatory when it is used against them by other black people. Who would have guessed????Yeah black people taking an extremely derogatory term back and using it causes so much societal strife... Of all the things that have happened/do happen in this country this is very low on the list of what is causing strife, confusion, division and conflict. I don't understand why white people not being able to use a word like that while black people can is causing anyone even a second of consternation. And I'm going to leave it at that since this isn't the cave.
I guess you figure it out once you get socked in the nose. Perhaps the kid that started the fight shouldn't have been so sensitive, or the black kid that used the term should have known that first or second gen black immigrants from other parts of the world don't always appreciate the term so much. All's good as long as you aren't the one getting the crap beat out of you. Carry on.