You can tell which parents in this thread have little kids. I was once an idealist on a phone too. Then they hit 5th grade and 90% of the other kids have one and it just becomes inevitable.
It sucks and in a perfect world it wouldn't be that way but here we are.
Ours are in high school and we felt zero pressure to get them phones that young. Even now that they have phones, they rarely use them except for the occasional text or Google search. They hate all social media.