After some time to reflect, I think it comes down to this for me: this team is good, and really fun at times, but not dominant or amazing. It's a top 25 team, but not a top 10 team. Which is what we were hoping was developing with Wigg and Lard coming back. But I think the chemistry & leadership just isn't quite there for that.
So yeah, not going to win the conference - its just not that kind of team. It hurts, because we started believing, even thought ISU was in the drivers seat. But they are still quite good, will go to the NCAA, and clearly have a chance to make some noise in the tournament - maybe a lot of noise depending on matchups and how well they play. And that's probably what most of us expected back in November.
The only thing that REALLY bothers me now, is losing at Hilton to someone that isn't Kansas. That's not a thing that should happen in a year with a good team.