In all seriousness, if you are coming back from out of state and you don't get back often, you might have a hard time getting your kid away from your parents. That's how my folks and my in-laws are when we visit, and we live close and visit often.
If that's the case, I'd say take advantage of it and go out with your wife, especially during the afternoon over nap time or after they're in bed. Then you don't have to worry about anyone playing/feeding/changing them as much but you've got someone you trust to pay attention.
If that's the case, I'd say take advantage of it and go out with your wife, especially during the afternoon over nap time or after they're in bed. Then you don't have to worry about anyone playing/feeding/changing them as much but you've got someone you trust to pay attention.