The only time I remember any of us being spanked was when my dad spanked me when I was about 4. He subsequently discovered I didn't do what he thought I did, and he felt so bad, he teared up a bit when he apologized to me. I told him it was ok, it didn't hurt and I had probably done something to deserve it at some point. That made him tear up more. He took just me out fishing with him and bought me ice cream on the way home he felt so bad.
With kids of my own, didn't dream of spanking them. Didn't ever want to feel as bad as my dad did. But we went through time outs and losses of privileges when we needed to.
My doosher of a BIL got drunk and passed out at a party in the bathtub when he was 14. They gave him no punishment but the hangover. No wonder he is so arrogant and entitled.
With kids of my own, didn't dream of spanking them. Didn't ever want to feel as bad as my dad did. But we went through time outs and losses of privileges when we needed to.
My doosher of a BIL got drunk and passed out at a party in the bathtub when he was 14. They gave him no punishment but the hangover. No wonder he is so arrogant and entitled.