That has been me almost the past 16yrs. And if it isn’t kids waking me up, it is hubby’s snoring.
Since my kids are older, I have two options: 1) stay up until the 12:30 curfew or 2) go to bed and have the wife wake me every so often and ask if the kids are home which then requires me to get up and check if their car is home or check in their room if they didn't drive.