For those complaining about TJ not getting on the refs, you need to go listen to what he was looking for in transfers. It's something called self-awareness. People in control of things don't react like toddlers when they don't get their way. Who are you more likely to listen to at your work? The guy who freaks out about stuff constantly or the guy who conversates with you?
That's great and all, but the fact is that the officials in college basketball and particularly those that the big 12 tends to employ, have shown they are swayable by coaches who are in their ear the whole game.
As a counter to what you're saying, when a ref is worried about being fair, if he has one guy who is livid and another guy that, due to lack of reaction, seems otherwise fine with things, it could be easy to subconsciously think that the calls have, so far, been in favor of the team who is fine with the calls... and then a shift is made.