First I lied to the inlaws and said I had another wedding to go to so I wouldn't have to go one my of my wife's family members wedding reception so I could go to my buddies bachelor party ( wife was in on it). Second I told my wife I was still at work when I am about to stop by the "secret fishing hole". Not really lying when she usually sees me on the way home from work and honks and laughs so she probably already knows.