Hi all, going on 4 years now. Just dropped in to say I realize how many friends I've lost since I stopped drinking. It's made me a bit sad but its certainly not a reason to start again.
I see pictures from people doing things I used to do but haven't called me in 2 years to participate. Anything from golf to softball to whatever...
Maybe I'm just not fun sober.
Congrats on almost 4 years! You should be incredibly proud of your accomplishment.
As for your friends, I’d bet that them avoiding you is much more about them than it is about you. They might feel guilty or they might not want to face a problem that they might have.