This is going to sound weird, but after planning things out for two loved ones who passed without their wishes known, I have planned out my entire memorial - including a fairly lengthy playlist for both the service and social time after.
For during the actual service:
With shredded carrots and raisins? That's how you take a meh dish like jello and make it really gross.
Whomever the **** invented those so called "foods" should be severely punished. Every event growing up seemed to have some odd **** mix of jello, olives, carrots, marshmallows, or something of the sort.
Nothing weird about that at all. My in-laws paid for their funerals years ago. Picked out their caskets. Purchased burial plots. Headstone is in place. My MIL died in 2011 and even had her burial clothes set aside for us.
My Mom passed just a couple weeks ago. She always wanted "Happy Trails" played at the end of the service while her casket was being pushed out of the sanctuary. So that's what we did.
My husband & I have our burial plots bought - next to our youngest son. But as far as the rest - we told our oldest son to do whatever he needs for closure. After attending a celebration of life a couple years ago, that's what my preference would be - with a family graveside burial. No traditional funeral or visitation. Let people think of the good times & reminisce together. Plenty of time to play all the music I like, too.
Orange jello with shredded carrots and crushed pineapple.With shredded carrots and raisins? That's how you take a meh dish like jello and make it really gross.