What is your ONE regret in life (so far)?
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Doing summer classes at ISU the summer of 2012. Mom had cancer and didn't make it to Thanksgiving. I wasn't aware that things were that bad when I signed up for summer classes. Maybe I should have known better.
By far my biggest regret.
By far my biggest regret.
In my 1996 high school econ class we bought a stock and tracked it the whole semester.
I picked all time low verge of bankruptcy Apple at literally pennies, I want to say 11 pennies? Oh to have even put 50 or 100 real dollars on it.
Can’t say I was some financial wizard, I was already into graphic art on computers I’d end up focusing career on and just a young Mac nerd.
I picked all time low verge of bankruptcy Apple at literally pennies, I want to say 11 pennies? Oh to have even put 50 or 100 real dollars on it.
Can’t say I was some financial wizard, I was already into graphic art on computers I’d end up focusing career on and just a young Mac nerd.
Interestingly, I got cancer at 42, yet had never so much as a cold until then. It was pretty advanced, but was a very treatable cancer. Regardless, I was given odds. Of course, 'reflection' is the most natural by-product. At that point I wouldn't have changed one thing. I was greatly appreciative of everything I was given and was proud of the human being I had become.
Little did I know that my future from that point on would sway my answer. 5 years later I would meet my wife. My only regret is that I didn't meet her much earlier in my life.
Little did I know that my future from that point on would sway my answer. 5 years later I would meet my wife. My only regret is that I didn't meet her much earlier in my life.
Man, there are some Really Good People on this forum. Thank you for your kindness, it provides me optimism.
My regret is simple, I should have told the people that I have lost in my life that I love them more often.
I have a similar feeling here. Wouldn’t change my time at ISU for anything tho. I feel like if I played football at a smaller school, I’d regret hurting my body more just to play football in front of a smaller crowd than my high school games.
Plus I feel like being an alum of a bigger school has helped with networking etc in my career
Don't want go down a long list but as an elder I do regret not talking more with my dad. I wasn't that close to my parents, especially my mother, can't really think of any real conversation I had with her. Had more of those with my dad but wished I'd sat down and wrote down more stuff, from stories of his grandfather teaching him to drive in a Model T to WWII stories. I have a few WWII stories but I was pretty little when he told me about walking into a house and hearing German hobnail boots on the floor above. He never told me how that ended. Little Boxster did ask. Older Boxster might have gotten the answer. He was not an infantry guy, was a medic in an artillery battalion, which makes the why and what a bit more interesting.
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HUGE on my "no regret" list is abruptly quitting my design office job. Good job, bad pay and BAD boss/owner. Was to the point of not sleeping at night. An older architect acquaintance, became a good friend, hired me to work on the huge remodelling of his personal residence. The crew as an ad hoc group of Lutheran seminary students and one real carpenter. Ended up doing concrete work, framing, building a big stair tower, installing a million windows, cedar decking, wood ceiling, sheetrocking, metal roof and Carlisle rubber flat roof. Even helped assemble and deck an I-beam bridge from the main house to the two story garage/studio bldg. Huge contemporary house that had a bit of everything. Only thing missing was shingles, it had none.
Came to an end when I got a job with the Corps of Engineers, another huge "no regrets" I came close to screwing up and turning down because the pay quoted was pretty low. GF at the time insisted I take the job. Guy quoting the salary was an acting chief and had quoted me the WRONG salary...it was actually higher once I had talked with the personnel folks.
I still remember my starting salary at the Corps of Engineers in January 1981. $19,741
I started October 1980 as a temp GS-7. Guy quoted salary in my job offer using the regular GS scale and not the engineer/architect scale. Pretty big difference to this underemployed guy at that time.
Probably going to Iowa State, if I’m being completely honest.
It’s probably more a big ‘what if’ than a definite ‘regret.’ I ultimately chose Iowa St. because it was close to home so it was comfortable, from scholarships and a college fund I wouldn’t have any debt, and I was obsessed with Iowa St. athletics. But I floundered around until about 5 years ago (early 30s). I got my Iowa St. degree, went to law school (didn’t graduate), owned a series of houses, etc. but was just kind of floating around and had some mental health issues.
I had opportunities out of high school to go to some prestigious universities (Wash U in St. Louis with a large scholarship, Yale, et al) and I’ve always wondered if I went away to college how that would have changed things. I’m guessing it would have either challenged me and made me work though some things or would have blown up which also might have made me work though some things sooner.
It’s probably more a big ‘what if’ than a definite ‘regret.’ I ultimately chose Iowa St. because it was close to home so it was comfortable, from scholarships and a college fund I wouldn’t have any debt, and I was obsessed with Iowa St. athletics. But I floundered around until about 5 years ago (early 30s). I got my Iowa St. degree, went to law school (didn’t graduate), owned a series of houses, etc. but was just kind of floating around and had some mental health issues.
I had opportunities out of high school to go to some prestigious universities (Wash U in St. Louis with a large scholarship, Yale, et al) and I’ve always wondered if I went away to college how that would have changed things. I’m guessing it would have either challenged me and made me work though some things or would have blown up which also might have made me work though some things sooner.
My biggest regret is not pursuing a career in writing for the screen, either big screen or small screen. I think I could have been very good at it, but I lacked the guts to make the move.
Not listening to Fred Choobineh telling us repeatedly to invest as much as we could in “the Google”.
I took MIS330 (I think) from Fred in like 1992. Really a good instructor.
