Agree. I don't know what the rule is there. The ref clearly didn't like the Gabe took a couple seconds to pick up the ball giving his team more time to set up for the inbounds play. However, that happens all the time. When does a ref decide he's going to start counting before the in-bounder touches the ball? I've never seen that before. Right after that happend TJ was talking to the ref about it (I'm assuming asking why the count was so fast) and then looked like he yelled at Gabe to pick up the ball right away.
If that's the rule, and the player needs to pick up the ball immediately, then enforce it. Don't just decide to suddenly enforce it with 30 seconds left in a tight game, then never do it again the rest of the year. Like I said, it is VERY common for the in-bounder to take his time picking up the ball in a situation like that. The ref just decided to start counting for us, because....why not?