I like your post, and you have definitely pointed out a downside to American culture. Americans are disorderly and disobedient people as a rule. We are much more violent compared to every other developed nation, too, on whatever metric you might use. We have more gun crime, stabbings, more beatings, more domestic violence, and more deadly accidents (especially of a vehicular nature) than our notional peers in Japan, Europe, and the rest of OECD. We just are who we are as a chaotic people.
The above is why I am always skeptical of emulation European or Japanese/Korean policies as a solution in an American context, but that is a broader point. Swedes actually obey sidewalk lines, and Swiss actually buy insurance when it is mandated. Americans do not. We are in many ways more comparable as a society to the rest of the New World with Latin America, the Caribbean, and our immediate neighbor México.
That unruliness, however, is also the source of our greatest strength. Americans challenge the existing order to a higher degree than do our peers in other industrialized democracies. We have a murder rate higher than Pakistan, but we also went to the Moon, have a huge economy and military, and are the home to Apple, Facebook, Disney, Coca Cola, Hollywood, the Internet, and Wall Street. Many of our greatest companies and institutions were founded by dropouts. We are richer than our peers (our per capita GDP is 20% more than Germany, Denmark, and Sweden plus 40% more than France). Everything cool and useful in the modern world tends to have an American origin story.
Most of the largest American businesses are <40 years old. The largest German corporations all began in the 19th Century (e.g., Allianz, VW, BMW, etc.), the largest Danish firm (Maersk) was founded in 1904, and the largest businesses in Norway are a state-owned oil company, a state-owned aluminum company, and a state-owned telecom. You might say "gimme some of that" stability and sanity, and you would be welcome to it. But you are not an American to go on the stable and safe merry-go-round. You are an American to go on the biggest roller coaster in the park and, once you get off, to demand a bigger one.
There is a wildness to Americans -- both one that makes us violent and ungovernable but also one that gives us an audacity to try others do not have.