Typically, Haliburton would stand tall, shake things off and find his way. But this time, Haliburton laid it all out there: The fear of failure, the feeling of being lost, the desire to avoid the gym and all of the outside noise it represented. Hanlen listened, helping Haliburton peel back all the layers.
“I spend very little time trying to convince (players) to do anything,” Hanlen told The Athletic. “Instead, I try to connect with them, listen to them, hear them out, and then try to rewire what’s possible in their mind and why it should matter.”
It can be scary to be vulnerable, whether out of fear of rejection or letting loved ones down by not being strong. But for Haliburton, that moment felt liberating. The conversation with Hanlen made him feel comfortable coming to his girlfriend, Jade, and loved ones with his struggles. It was the first step toward shaping a healthier mindset.
“I hadn’t told anybody and I really obviously didn’t want to tell anybody,” Haliburton said. “And so when me and Drew finally had that conversation and tried to figure out the right way to shift things from there, I think that that was really important