Almost forgot: Find Chris Williams' sister-in-law and hit on her.
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Almost forgot: Find Chris William's sister-in-law and hit on her.
Almost forgot: Find Chris William's sister-in-law and hit on her.
Ok young padawan, if I had it to do all over again (and I wish I did) these are the pitfalls I would avoid and the opportunities I would persue. I basically had two seperate college experiences. One before I figured out who I was, and one after. After was better.
1. If you have a HS girlfriend, have a fun summer and then have an honest talk with her. Chances are you aren't going to end up with your HS sweetheart. Trying to make it work will make you both miserable and you will miss out on the college experience. Unless she is your soul mate or you are both going to ISU together (still not advisable) break it off. My first year at ISU I was the guy that went back to Des Moines every weekend to work and see my GF. The spring of the same year she cheated on me and dumped me. By then I had missed out on really making friends with anyone on my floor. On top of that I was depressed over how the cheating ***** treated me so I wasn't someone who people would want to be friends with that much. I ended up having a different roomate each of my first 4 semesters because I didn't make friends that well.
Keep yo oor open and make friends with guys on your floor. Both the other freshmen and the older guys. The older guys will know where the parties are. They know where the hook ups are. They know how and where to tailgate.
2. Get involved. In anything. After my first year I got involved. For me it was Marching band. I met friends that are still my best friends and really started to find out who I am. I went to parties and met girls. Heck, I met my wife in band and we started dating after a band party at my house. Getting involved was one of the best things I ever did.
3. Figure out what you want to do for the rest of your life. I started out as a Computer Engineering major. It took me two years to figure out that I really didn't want to do that for the rest of my life. I changed to MIS and actually enjoyed it.
Once you find out what you want to do, apply
I was just going to say these exact three things. Very good advice.
I would also add... be yourself. In HS a lot of people try to be what they think other people want them to be. In college everyone kind of seems to find their own type of person, regardless of how "cool" that is. And within every type are groups that party hard, and groups that like to chill. Whatever you like is fine. Just do your thing, and be a nice person.
I was just going to say these exact three things. Very good advice.
I would also add... be yourself. In HS a lot of people try to be what they think other people want them to be. In college everyone kind of seems to find their own type of person, regardless of how "cool" that is. And within every type are groups that party hard, and groups that like to chill. Whatever you like is fine. Just do your thing, and be a nice person.
-Try to get out of school with as little debt as possible. I have friends who spend $500/month in student loans. Others who are building new houses, buying new cars or saving a pile of money every month.
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Possibly even more important then...meet new people. I thought I'd stay friends with my high school friends...I talk to none of them now. I am still close with my college friends, even though the closest one is an hour away.
Regarding alcohol, yah, keep it in check. This also helps with the right friends. All of my friends drank underage, all of us graduated. I knew several however who didn't graduate. The difference, easiest I can explain it...if you asked my friends and I what we were doing on the weekend, we'd tell you an activity, and it was assumed we'd have drinks. If you asked the others, they'd say "GETTING DRUUUNNNK"....yah, don't hang out with, or be that person. If drinking/getting drunk is your primary objective, you prolly don't have a future.
Adjusting: I knew people who were too homesick to do anything, the successful ones were too busy to be homesick.
Lastly, figure out what makes you YOU. The biggest things I learned in college were not in the classroom, but it was learning what makes me successful at something, what I'm capable of, and what's important to me. I don't mean the 'take a semester off to find myself', but in getting thru something that's up there with the best and hardest think you'll do, you need to figure out what motivates you and makes you happy.