welp, volleyball to be interesting tonight.
We've been playing with 7 people and playoffs for the league are typically 2 weeks so we're like we good at the start of the season. Start the season and realize that playoffs go 3 weeks this one for some reason. Even our ref last week was surprised at that. Realized that our BFF couple will be on vacation for the final week and the league now has super strict rules about subs because people were being dicks and pulling in ringers for the playoffs.
But we are allowed one sub in the playoffs so I figured we'll deal with finding someone if we win tonight. Well, the couple mentioned, the husband has had a parent relapse with cancer earlier this year and wife messaged this morning that the parent had passed over the weekend. It's all quite sad though not entirely unexpected as they had made the decision to move to hospice mid-summer and the husband has been spending a lot of time going back and forth to spend time with parent. TBH, I'm relieved for them that it happened before they leave (this coming weekend!) for a two week trip to Europe. It would have been very difficult to enjoy (or even go) had parent been that close though I'm sure they'll be sad anyway. Probably makes me terrible but I'm just really glad they can go and not have to feel guilty or potentially not have been there when parent passed. It's been a rough few months with the back and forth and I am relieved for them that they are hopefully done with that.
Anyway, so obviously neither of them are going to be playing volleyball tonight. Meaning we're at 5 people now. We played with 5 to open the season and lost 2-1 against the 2nd seed (we are 4th). The team we have tonight is not as good as that team and we've improved. Another player messaged and is like should we get two subs?? What do we do??
I'm like well first, we can only have one sub. And I guess I'd rather we try to play tonight with 5 and then try to get a sub for next week's potential double-header against teams seeded higher than us. I don't think it does us much good to play with the sub tonight against a team I think we can beat and then be down a player against better teams next week. I'm sure person messaging will want me to go to the league runner and ask for special consideration for the circumstances but I'm like whatevs. He also wanted me to ask about getting a refund on the game last week when the other team forfeited.
ok, they messaged saying that sounds good so I guess we are a go then.