So I think it can be read one of two ways:I need some interpretations here.
Last night, I was texting one of the numerous women who have rejected me for one reason or another and this is what she said:
If you want to be friends (real friends), I am up for it. I’m not as black and white as I used to be about dating and I became open to different types of connections over the last year.
WTF?
1.) She's open to being friends with benefits (I think this is the more natural reading).
2.) She just wants to be friends. I have a friend who is very rarely friends with her exes. It's possible this woman is saying she's realized you can be friends with someone after you've rejected them/it hasn't worked out.