This is my first post in a few years - started following your team after we played you in NCAA tournament - we had a similar discussion on our board... just thought I would share my thoughts ...
This is probably a very subjective and a cases by cases discussion - today I saw two articles about women's coaches being investigated by their schools for "mistreatment of players" - What constitutes mistreatment now days? Yelling? Cussing? Making them run laps? Calling them names like stupid, idiot, worthless??
Throwing balls at them is a no no, hitting them in anyway is a no no, and not even going to bring up Tyler Summitt because we all agree and understand that.
Have kids become so soft that they can't separate what happens on a athletic field from real life?
I have used myself as an example before and will again - all my coaches whether it was soccer, basketball, or baseball - yelled at times, or called me names, or made us run until we puked. But in all cases (at least as I remember it) it was about my performance on the field - "you play like a piece of S$#t, what the F#$@ where you thinking Nomar, you can't be that stupid Nomar run the correct play......etc believe me it was worse. But in each and every case I like my coach as a person - I knew that I could go to each one of them if I was in a jam or needed to talk, I knew that they had my back and would do whatever they could to help me.
It seems that there are no more "mental tough" kids out there they all want trophies for showing up, they feel entitled to be treated a certain way.