I agree with ctguytillidie. I saw Harbaugh carry his celebration into the handshake with a slap on the hand and a shove in the back on Schwartz more like he was celebrating with one of his own coaches. I've never seen anything like it before in a post game handshake. I'm not sure he meant any disrespect but it came accross that way. It was an unusual post game handshake to say the least and Harbaugh has apologized for it. I'm guessing Schwartz will accept the apology and apologize for his over-reaction too, but it will certainly add some future tension between these bright young coaches and their rising teams.
Yeah, I think that is a good way to look at it. Harbaugh was wrong I think, but it wasn't intentional, and of course Schwartz' reaction wasn't good either.