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BCClone

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I appreciate people trying to set me up but holy **** it can be overwhelming sometimes. Some drunk old lady i was sitting next to at the bar wouldn't leave me alone, told me the same stories 3 times, and then ambushed me by inviting her granddaughter down.

Good looking, but had a lot of makeup on. Has a young kid, which is pretty much a dealbreaker. Someone here who knows her told me to run far away.
If grandma is setting up, avoid.

I had a woman on ambulance try to set me up with her daughter, it was awkward. I politely made an excuse. Years later I told my wife about it and she was actually a friend of my wife’s. Wife told me that she she was kind of a nympho. Decent looking, so I missed out on some fun there it seems.
 

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If grandma is setting up, avoid.

I had a woman on ambulance try to set me up with her daughter, it was awkward. I politely made an excuse. Years later I told my wife about it and she was actually a friend of my wife’s. Wife told me that she she was kind of a nympho. Decent looking, so I missed out on some fun there it seems.
And I've met someone too and we've been hanging out and I told this lady that, that I'm a one girl at time guy now and she wasn't having it. Told me I have to date a bunch of people at once to find out who I like.
 

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And I've met someone too and we've been hanging out and I told this lady that, that I'm a one girl at time guy now and she wasn't having it. Told me I have to date a bunch of people at once to find out who I like.
I’m on your side, get to know one and go from there. Don’t Ho around.
 

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Husband gets to go alllll the way out to Eldridge for a game on Friday.

oi.
 

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So the bartender that people think I'm after, which I'm not, have never asked out, or expressed any kind of interest like that to her, is all of a sudden asking me for things.

All we've done is text, just as friends, but it is almost daily. She just seemed like she needed someone to talk to. I'm a caring person, and was single at the time, so I didn't mind talking with her and maybe being slightly flirtatious. But like I said, I never even expressed any kind of interest in getting together outside the bar.

But now she texted me at 2am Saturday morning wanting me to come over. Wanted me to bring her a coffee this morning. I'm like no, I'm sleeping and I'm busy today. She has other friends that can do that stuff. I don't think this is a coincidence since I'm seeing someone now and I know she saw us together Friday night.

Another bartender there warned me that she likes to take advantage of men who think she's attractive. I refused to believe it, but now I see it.

Maybe I met this lady I'm seeing at exactly the right time.
 

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So the bartender that people think I'm after, which I'm not, have never asked out, or expressed any kind of interest like that to her, is all of a sudden asking me for things.

All we've done is text, just as friends, but it is almost daily. She just seemed like she needed someone to talk to. I'm a caring person, and was single at the time, so I didn't mind talking with her and maybe being slightly flirtatious. But like I said, I never even expressed any kind of interest in getting together outside the bar.

But now she texted me at 2am Saturday morning wanting me to come over. Wanted me to bring her a coffee this morning. I'm like no, I'm sleeping and I'm busy today. She has other friends that can do that stuff. I don't think this is a coincidence since I'm seeing someone now and I know she saw us together Friday night.

Another bartender there warned me that she likes to take advantage of men who think she's attractive. I refused to believe it, but now I see it.

Maybe I met this lady I'm seeing at exactly the right time.
Don’t show her @Cyclones_R_GR8 picture since his looks are so stunning that it scares women off.

Also, women seem to go after men that are in relationships. Must think if someone wants them, then they must be decent.
 
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So the bartender that people think I'm after, which I'm not, have never asked out, or expressed any kind of interest like that to her, is all of a sudden asking me for things.

All we've done is text, just as friends, but it is almost daily. She just seemed like she needed someone to talk to. I'm a caring person, and was single at the time, so I didn't mind talking with her and maybe being slightly flirtatious. But like I said, I never even expressed any kind of interest in getting together outside the bar.

But now she texted me at 2am Saturday morning wanting me to come over. Wanted me to bring her a coffee this morning. I'm like no, I'm sleeping and I'm busy today. She has other friends that can do that stuff. I don't think this is a coincidence since I'm seeing someone now and I know she saw us together Friday night.

Another bartender there warned me that she likes to take advantage of men who think she's attractive. I refused to believe it, but now I see it.

Maybe I met this lady I'm seeing at exactly the right time.

Years ago there was this really cute waitress at our bar. She'd always make an effort to talk and flirt when I came in.

One night I asked her to join us when her shift was over. Super casual. He coworkers asked me to be nice to her....which I found odd. Of course I planned on being nice

Well turns out she was 18 with a couple of kids. So I was nice but never made that offer again
 
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BCClone

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Years ago there was this really cute waitress at our bar. She'd always make an effort to talk and flirt when I came in.

One night I asked her to join us when her shift was over. Super casual. He coworkers asked me to be nice to her....which I found odd. Of course I planned on being nice

Well turns out she was 18 with a couple of kids. So I was nice but never made that offer again
She apparently flirted a lot.
 

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Don’t show her @Cyclones_R_GR8 picture since his looks are so stunning that it scares women off.

Also, women seem to go after men that are in relationships. Must think if someone wants them, then they must be decent.
Yeah, definitely getting a jealousy vibe. I'm just going to tell her straight up that hey I've met someone, we're really connecting, I like her, and that we can't be texting each other all the time. We can still be friends, but the friendship will have to be confined to the bar, just as with the other bartenders there. She's a hard worker, she's been through a lot of **** in her life, more than most, struggles with mental health a little (she sees a therapist twice a week), and I listened to and empathized with her the best I could. I still will, but only when I'm at the bar.
 

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Husband gets to go alllll the way out to Eldridge for a game on Friday.

oi.
I ended last season there and start next season there. Really nice new football stadium though. Could have given the officials room some more space though, hardly enough room to move in much less five of us get dressed at once.
 

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Jefferson to CRapids road trip today scattered showers the whole time. It was a easy day of driving it was still nice to be back home.
 

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Jefferson to CRapids road trip today scattered showers the whole time. It was a easy day of driving it was still nice to be back home.

I left the metro twice this weekend! Drove "all the way" to Hastings twice to chase some owl photo ops. LOL. Man, I just don't go anywhere anymore. It's why my 10 year car only has 42K miles on it (not even driven to church on Sunday either).
 

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I left the metro twice this weekend! Drove "all the way" to Hastings twice to chase some owl photo ops. LOL. Man, I just don't go anywhere anymore. It's why my 10 year car only has 42K miles on it (not even driven to church on Sunday either).
My 23 Kia Rio 70,000 miles plus a deer hit that required the left fender and all the plastic across the front to be replaced. :oops:
Ps I really liked the owlet pic
 

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