I don't know much about the transgender community, so please realize I have two questions that are not intended to offend or hurt you. If they are too personal there is no need to respond.
1. Is 135lbs bench strong for girls?
2. Have you gone to the gym and competed with other girls, and did you feel you had an edge if you did?
Sorry that was three questions.
Thank you for being really respectful. I think as mods that we have to seem like we're negative a lot, but I think we can do a better job about calling out when something was really kind and respectful - like this.