This is basically it. It's a matter of higher expectations. There's a concept called "anchoring" which is basically about managing expectations. If you walk into a car dealership and expect to to pay $20K for a car and get it for $19K, you feel like you've gotten a good deal, even if objectively you got screwed. But because you anchored that $20K number in your mind, even though it wasn't well-informed, you feel good.
Ever since last spring, the expectations have been that we had a team that could compete for a championship. And at Hilton we are supposed to be virtually invincible. We've been hovering around the top 15 all year. That's the new normal, the expectation, the anchor. Last night, we had to pay $22K for the car we thought we'd only have to pay $20K for, and now we're mad about it. The real question is, did we get screwed (or in this case, screw ourselves by losing), or were our expectations misguided to begin with?
Personally based on what I've seen from this team this year, the expectations are mostly on target. We can be that good. So it's that much more infuriating when we aren't, and last night it cost us in a big way. That doesn't excuse the way some people choose to behave about it.