I do, but I'm over budget. And I can't really get under until sometime in December. Everything built up with credit and debt last year with mom's illness. My dog, who was a gift 11 years ago to me when I was - severely depressed and not far from - finding a different way out - is a diabetic so he's expensive but he is the only reason I'm here today. So I struggle not paying for his care. Because he saved my life, literally. Medicine, therapy, nothing else had worked except for a little silly ball of fluff that played with worms and leaves and snorts when he rolls on the floor. And then I helped a friend, a lot. But they needed help And I thought - wrongly - I thought I could afford to.
When I get paid, I struggle staying in budget, its such a struggle to month, I want to go buy things I couldn't get two weeks ago. So I burn through it. I don't waste it. Its bills, food, insulin and dog food, etc. I don't gamble, I don't drink, I don't another alternative medicine, etc. I wasn't able to find a second job, and then some more bills pop up -
its my mess. Its just - when I think I find a way out - it only seems to drag me back under further. Which is a song thats been song a million times and will be sung a million times again unfortunately. Back when I played the lotto - I used to joke with my mom I didn't want to win the jackpot. I mean, of course, I would have happily done that but I just... I just wish I could find a solution where I could pay a little bit back on my credit and debt, so my score increased, so in a couple months I could refinance the house. Yeah, more debt for me but I don't want a easy way or a quick fix. I just want to feel like I have a way out. And I don't right now.
A few years ago I changed lanes at work in the pursuit of happiness - makes sense, right? But that coupled with no longer having a roommate - was a loss that I never recovered. Coupled with inflation then her getting sick, etc, etc. And now Im on the titanic with a leaky bucket.
But its life. I've never been that good at it.
Its gonna be a long 2 weeks but it is what it is.