Thanks for bringing this up. This is something I have been thinking about (struggling with?) for a few years now. For a long time, I wanted kids, but, the older I got, the more I realized I dont think I do. Several reasons why, I love my independence, Im the oldest of 4 (3rd parent a lot of days), I have almost 0 patience, plus some other, deeper, more personal reasons that Im not sharing on here.
The gf is passionate about having kids, and I have told her I dont want them. She thinks its just a phase, maybe she is right, but I dont think so. Her mom has made some comments recently, I just brush them off and move on.
I have a nephew that is 16 months. Absolutely love hanging out with him, but love it even more giving him back to my sister.
I could go on I guess, should wrap it up (pun intended), turning into a Sig post. Do what you want to do I guess. Dont get pressured either way. No wrong answer, just let it be your decision.