Try having 2 kids and then get divorced. You can't write off child support. Plus you pay taxes on the income before it goes out the door...
That being said, if you are young, get out of debt as fast as you can and make sacrifices to do so. When you are 40, or so, you will be SO happy you did because all your money will be working for you instead of working for somebody else.
Young people are not instructed on how to manage their money. You usually learn by mistakes, and no, divorce wasn't a mistake. Marriage was.
Exactly... I have 2 ex-wives and 3 children. Love the kids, but the exes are something else.
Who knew that a woman you were married to for 5 years, who was a stay at home mom (because i worked), could get crazy child support? To the effect that she got half my 401k and STILL doesn't need to get a job. She now makes more than me and is perfectly fine with that... without even having a freaking job. Pretty frustrating.
Anyhoo... it is what it is. I love the kids and they are well taken care of.