Flying Mango is my favorite in DSM and I probably prefer it to Q39, Jack Stack, and Joe's. Pre pandemic, I checked out Hawq Jaw in KC, it was ok but nothing better than local BBQ. Whatcha Smokin in Luther is also decent. LC's in KC is good.
The one place I want to check out in KC is Slap's.
I have nothing against Jethros but I usually eat a tenderloin. They also have good spicy corn.
I’m the same, again though it’s all about preference. I put KC Joe’s, flying Mango, and Unrvld kind of on the same tier. I love the sides at Jack Stack but I can take or leave their meat. Q39, Smokey D’s, etc I really don’t care if I eat it again ever. If people want to go there I will but I’d never just choose to do it.
side note, I know a lot of people have mentioned coaches Kolaches and Unrvld but they are great, owned by former clones, and I’m not just saying it because they are former players. We got kolaches for our super bowl party from there. Love them.