Another Female Teacher 'Incident'

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Teachers sleeping with students is the dirty little secret that has been around forever in most schools. The difference today unlike 20 to 30 years ago the teacher is brought up on charges. Before when it happened the teacher was quietly told to resign and leave the district, many felt it was better for the student and the district to not let the public know that they had a pervert teaching their children.

As an educator, I find it intolerable and have reported one myself to a principle when told by a girl I was coaching that her sister was sleeping with the varsity girls coach. Instead of being thanked, I was told to never bring it up again, or I would no longer be teaching at the school, the AD who I had first talked too about the situation said, "he knows, but the coach is being protected by the administration, and there is nothing he can do about it. "

Its out there, and its still going on, and it makes me sick to my stomach.

There’s a well known teacher in Eldora like this. My company contracted work through him and his mostly minor aged summer crew through my previous employer and as soon as my company found out, we cut ties. He has never been busted and still worked through the district last I knew.
 

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Was at tournaments against this one for daughters volleyball.

That seems strange

West Fork Superintendent Mike Kruger said the district did not refer the matter to local law enforcement, but did conduct its own internal investigation. State mandatory reporting laws require district officials to refer potential criminal activity that may have harmed a student to law enforcement, but Kruger said that did not apply in this case.
 
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Little I heard is the kid was 18.
Does not matter the age of the student, if they are in school, its illegal for anyone employed by the school to be in a relationship with them. I believe it continues until 3 to 6 months after they graduate.

It would also be illegal if they are in a different district than the one you are employed by. Meaning a school employee cannot be messing around with a student in another district, not their own.
 

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Was at tournaments against this one for daughters volleyball.

She still gets to attend high school sporting events which seems odd to me. Cant remember if she has a kid or niece that still plays. Also the photos she posted on Facebook where outstanding. She would be hard to pass up if she offered.
 
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She still gets to attend high school sporting events which seems odd to me. Cant remember if she has a kid or niece that still plays. Also the photos she posted on Facebook where outstanding. She would be hard to pass up if she offered.
I wouldn’t have said no back in the days if she did.
 

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She still gets to attend high school sporting events which seems odd to me. Cant remember if she has a kid or niece that still plays. Also the photos she posted on Facebook where outstanding. She would be hard to pass up if she offered.
Looks like the guy she is engaged to is 20 years younger than her.
 

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Isn't the age of consent 16? I suppose if the parents want to press charges they could but I don't know that you can really hold her over the fire other than she is breaking her duties and responsibilities as a teacher.
 

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Teachers sleeping with students is the dirty little secret that has been around forever in most schools. The difference today unlike 20 to 30 years ago the teacher is brought up on charges. Before when it happened the teacher was quietly told to resign and leave the district, many felt it was better for the student and the district to not let the public know that they had a pervert teaching their children.

As an educator, I find it intolerable and have reported one myself to a principle when told by a girl I was coaching that her sister was sleeping with the varsity girls coach. Instead of being thanked, I was told to never bring it up again, or I would no longer be teaching at the school, the AD who I had first talked too about the situation said, "he knows, but the coach is being protected by the administration, and there is nothing he can do about it. "

Its out there, and its still going on, and it makes me sick to my stomach.

Same thing at Linn-Mar with the teacher at the middle school a couple of years ago. Many people reported it but were told to let it go. That school's principal is married to the districts head of HR...Police looked into it but no charges ever resulted and after being on paid leave for most of the school year he agreed to resign and move on. No action on his license or anything. Oh and this is the second school he has been at that he has had accusations but escaped any real punishment.
 

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Isn't the age of consent 16? I suppose if the parents want to press charges they could but I don't know that you can really hold her over the fire other than she is breaking her duties and responsibilities as a teacher.

Because it is against the law as a teacher. If you look back far enough in this thread there was a teacher at Ankeny that got in trouble, charged all that stuff for having relations with a student a month or so after he graduated.
 
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Because it is against the law as a teacher. If you look back far enough in this thread there was a teacher at Ankeny that got in trouble, charged all that stuff for having relations with a student a month or so after he graduated.
I feel like these situations are always in a vacuum. Doesn't seem to be any kind of consistent punishment handed out if any at all with many of these.

I don't really have anything to say as far as a moral standpoint but I guess it seems strange to me that outside of the minor being her student would the relationship be legal if the ages were the same but she were not his superior?

Edit: we have a family friend who had an affair with their student athlete. They continued the relationship post high school as some of my friends lived in the same dorm as the student and saw the teacher leaving the room on more than one occasion late at night.

Their spouses is a lawyer though so I'm not sure if or what went on behind the scenes. The students parent was an administrator...
 
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