I don't think there's anything nefarious or underhanded about coaches showing one another "professional courtesy" when speaking about other coaches and other basketball programs.
Coaches are professional networkers. Making friends good. Making enemies bad. You never know when you might be working with a guy or a position where you need to ask him for a favor.
Sometimes guys with good and close relationships will tease each other (e.g., seems like Self said some teasing things after the ISU/KU game, etc.) but otherwise you have nothing to gain and plenty of things to lose if you decide to go out in a press conference and start badmouthing a colleague like that.
So, no, I don't read much of anything into what these coaches say about one another.
Coaches are professional networkers. Making friends good. Making enemies bad. You never know when you might be working with a guy or a position where you need to ask him for a favor.
Sometimes guys with good and close relationships will tease each other (e.g., seems like Self said some teasing things after the ISU/KU game, etc.) but otherwise you have nothing to gain and plenty of things to lose if you decide to go out in a press conference and start badmouthing a colleague like that.
So, no, I don't read much of anything into what these coaches say about one another.