As a father of three children who are all grown adults now, I volunteered to coach football, basketball, baseball, and softball. Our family traveled to neighboring towns, then to neighboring states, and then to places like Florida and Texas to cheer our kids on. Over the years, we spent a ridiculous amount of time and money on our kids' sports.
One of the three managed to earn an athletic scholarship at Iowa State, but the other two officially ended their athletic careers after high school. However, all three made wonderful friendships along the way and the up days far outnumbered the down days.
The many many sporting events and travel were something our family got to do together, so I don't think I'd change a thing if I had the opportunity to do it all over, although I'd probably be much more relaxed the second time around because I now understand much better that it's all about enjoying the journey and not about winning championships and scholarships.
It does make me sad, though, that there are so many kids whose families cannot afford the enormous expense involved with youth sports competition.