I will throw in my 2 cents. Wife and I spent the first 3 months of our marriage in CR, then moved to Dallas and rented in the Uptown area for 2 years. Last summer we decided we decided we we're ready to set roots and started looking for a home to buy. I'll try and keep this short. Bought a home at 4% interest, 30 year mortgage with only 5% down. We pay $93 a month in PMI and probably will for 5-10 years. It's not ideal, but no way we had 20% or would be very close in the next few years when we really wanted to purchase. We will plan to refi in the near future to a 15 year to build equity quicker and hopefully get a lower rate. We did buy thinking of the future (unlike most places in Iowa, school districts make a HUGE difference), we bought in a good school district, and bought a home that we would feel comfortable with adding a few children to. We also bought a house that is perfectly suitable for most people, but we want to update here and there, so we set money aside to do so every month. Things I recommend from my personal experience: Budgets are your friend. Realtors and others will sell you on PITI (Principal, Interest, Taxes, Insurance) under something like 35% of your income. I think this is far too high. When we bought, we were at about 25% of take home, now we are around 21%, and that's with throwing a little extra to principal every month. I thought 25 was a good number to give you flexibility. So if your take home is $4k/month, I personally wouldn't get into something more than $1k all-in. You don't want to be "house-poor" and not be able to live or improve your house because PITI is draining you.