I've only read two of your posts, and I can tell you right now that you're nothing like Phaedrus.
Thats a good thing.
You sir are correct. LonoClone is no Phaedrus, but he is all mine. I actually got lucky when we first met.
My BF (at the time) were fighting at Cys Roost (when it was cool) .... Lono stepped up and stopped that ******* from acting like a neanderthal towards me and women in general.
Since that night and 23 years later, I have found my knight ..... and his shinning armor.