Recently, I got serious about losing weight. I have lost about 30lbs in less than three months. I am now below 210lb, which I haven't been at since my sophomore year in college (2012).
COUNT CALORIES
Here's how I did it:
1. COUNT CALORIES. This is the most important one by far. I had no clue what the math of my body looked like; it was a disaster. Weightloss isn't wishwashy; it's science. When I counted calories, I realized which foods are the problem. I ate McDonald's nearly everyday and still lost weight. Even if I go over, I still log them.
Sorry, but beer counts as calories.
2. 10,000 steps a day. If you are serious, you will do it.
3. Diet Soda. Yes, Diet Soda is different than regular soda for weightloss. It's still bad for you, but if your first goal is weightloss (mine was), a substitute for the sugar sodas is diet or zero calorie sodas.
4. No eating before bed. This one is less important, but it still helps. No eating food 3 hours before bed.
5. Weigh yourself everyday when you wake up. Seriously, when you see the scale go from 237.4 to 237.0 the next day, it's the best feeling ever. Its only a couple ounces, but its progress! Plus, weighing yourself everyday helps you to not go off the rails if you have a bad couple of days.
6. Pray about it. I know it's not for everyone, but I asked God to help me every day, and he showed me the way. I'd be lying if I said I did it by myself.
Fad Diets don't work. You know this, so don't try it. Chances are you have tried them and they only discouraged you. I tried carnivore, keto, only eggs for a month, all that BS. It's not sustainable and only made me feel like a lost cause.
Lifestyle changes need to be made. Once you realize that you are making changes for the rest of your life, you stop lying that you "will not eat cake or sweets for a month". That isn't sustainable, so don't do it. Just figure out something that will work for you.
Don't set a deadline (unless that helps you). Deadlines make me anxious, so I just chose to meet my daily calorie goal and the weight just fell off.
Again, COUNT CALORIES!
You can do it and you owe it to yourself to try. Even if you only lose 10lbs, that is a big accomplishment.