The other night we had one person take care of the check and everyone else reimbursed them via venmo. The person was completely reimbursed before we got up to leave.
I have a different issue. My daughter got married about a year ago. When we go out with the her husband's family, both his father and me want to pay the bill. For my daughter's graduation lunch, I went to the bathroom and told the waitress to bring me the bill. I didn't notice when his father went to the bathroom a little later and actually paid the bill in advance. Kudos to him for a very nice move. However, this was our event and they were our guests, so I didn't like it. It's one thing to do it for a random night out, but I think he crossed the line in usurping payment for an event that was specifically for my daughter's accomplishment. It would have been different if he had set up the event as his gift for her graduation, but the FIL and MIL were late additions to our event.
Splitting a bill in any format is a chump move. Take turns paying or flip somebody some cash later.
There are a lot of places now that either won't split the check or they charge to do it.
Maybe a server can chime in but I’ve never understood why some servers/restaurants complain about split checks. It’s not that much work with POS systems, plus if you have a large table to split that should mean a significant tip, right?
I have the notion that whoevers kid's celebration it is picks it up. If it would be my daughters, then I would; if someone else then let them decide if we each pay or they are picking it up. Worst is when the wife's brother and his family invite themselves along for a meal with my wife's mom. I will go to pay and the local ones stick me with the whole bill because the MIL apparently told them when she went to the bathroom that it was all on one bill but she never arranges to pay for it. I go up since we invited and end up with twice the bill.I have a different issue. My daughter got married about a year ago. When we go out with the her husband's family, both his father and me want to pay the bill. For my daughter's graduation lunch, I went to the bathroom and told the waitress to bring me the bill. I didn't notice when his father went to the bathroom a little later and actually paid the bill in advance. Kudos to him for a very nice move. However, this was our event and they were our guests, so I didn't like it. It's one thing to do it for a random night out, but I think he crossed the line in usurping payment for an event that was specifically for my daughter's accomplishment. It would have been different if he had set up the event as his gift for her graduation, but the FIL and MIL were late additions to our event.
I have a different issue. My daughter got married about a year ago. When we go out with the her husband's family, both his father and me want to pay the bill. For my daughter's graduation lunch, I went to the bathroom and told the waitress to bring me the bill. I didn't notice when his father went to the bathroom a little later and actually paid the bill in advance. Kudos to him for a very nice move. However, this was our event and they were our guests, so I didn't like it. It's one thing to do it for a random night out, but I think he crossed the line in usurping payment for an event that was specifically for my daughter's accomplishment. It would have been different if he had set up the event as his gift for her graduation, but the FIL and MIL were late additions to our event.
Maybe a server can chime in but I’ve never understood why some servers/restaurants complain about split checks. It’s not that much work with POS systems, plus if you have a large table to split that should mean a significant tip, right?
In my limited experience in the service industry, talking a few months. People who split up checks to exactly what they ordered were cheaper than those who just split it evenly or didn’t split it at all. Thus tipped less.
Also it is a bit more work and depending on the night any amount of extra work when you got 5 other tables is just an annoyance. Plus it holds up the POS so others gotta wait.
I mean it’s part of the job and it’s not that much extra work but I liken it to an email at 4:55pm that you have to answer before I can cut out for the day or something like that.
In my limited experience in the service industry, talking a few months. People who split up checks to exactly what they ordered were cheaper than those who just split it evenly or didn’t split it at all. Thus tipped less.
I'd guess this is accurate.
I've never been a waiter, but I was thinking this would be the case too. In my experience, those who want to do it this way tend to be on the cheaper side. I don't really care that much about the couple extra dollars I would save by splitting the check this way, but to me, it's not worth fighting over.
with venmo i don't think people split the bill as much
but also.. my venmo feed is filled with people sending money to others for food/drinks but i don't understand why they just don't order themselves?
I think you literally just answered it the sentence before. Someone took the whole check and people are paying them back. Instead of giving your friend a $20 or whatever, just Venmo them
My guess is that the divided group has some that tip zero.