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You can untag yourself.

Yep, but if you don't make FB a regular thing/check it often, etc., that still gives the public plenty of time to see your name on someone's post when it's something you'd prefer not to be public.

It was really annoying to check my regular email mid-week to find my privacy had been breached without consent.

And if the answer is 'keep FB as an app on your phone to check it more', that means having access to something like FB often, which is generally just not healthy.

The 'check-in' and 'tag' features are simply pathetic.
 

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Yep, but if you don't make FB a regular thing/check it often, etc., that still gives the public plenty of time to see your name on someone's post when it's something you'd prefer not to be public.

It was really annoying to check my regular email mid-week to find my privacy had been breached without consent.

And if the answer is 'keep FB as an app on your phone to check it more', that means having access to something like FB often, which is generally just not healthy.

The 'check-in' and 'tag' features are simply pathetic.

Set your privacy to friends only instead of friends of friends.
 

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Set your privacy to friends only instead of friends of friends.

Did that... last I knew, their postings/tags were still viewable by anyone allowed to see their posts. Friends of friends, who were people I'd rather not associate myself with in real life, would ask me about the places they'd seen me tagged in.

The best option is no FB at all and it's not just the 'tagging' paranoia.

Sometimes, I just get together with people and ask them what they've been up to, and vice versa, and we have conversations. Incredible stuff.

Don't even get me started on going to concerts and actually watching them.
 

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Did that... last I knew, their postings/tags were still viewable by anyone allowed to see their posts. Friends of friends, who were people I'd rather not associate myself with in real life, would ask me about the places they'd seen me tagged in.

The best option is no FB at all and it's not just the 'tagging' paranoia.

Sometimes, I just get together with people and ask them what they've been up to, and vice versa, and we have conversations. Incredible stuff.

Don't even get me started on going to concerts and actually watching them.

You sound like you're an old person.
 
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Did that... last I knew, their postings/tags were still viewable by anyone allowed to see their posts. Friends of friends, who were people I'd rather not associate myself with in real life, would ask me about the places they'd seen me tagged in.

The best option is no FB at all and it's not just the 'tagging' paranoia.

Sometimes, I just get together with people and ask them what they've been up to, and vice versa, and we have conversations. Incredible stuff.

Don't even get me started on going to concerts and actually watching them.
I'm confused why do you care if you get tagged in stuff?
 

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I'm confused why do you care if you get tagged in stuff?

I appreciate privacy, and respect others' privacy? I don't find it appropriate for someone to breach others' privacy?

I'm confused as to how it's seen as such an odd thing to be concerned with, but that's the world today.
 

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I don't think this transition has occurred as my 87 year old father is still sending and receiving "facebooks."
 

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I appreciate privacy, and respect others' privacy? I don't find it appropriate for someone to breach others' privacy?

I'm confused as to how it's seen as such an odd thing to be concerned with, but that's the world today.

You can also set it so that it will ask for your permission first whenever someone tries to tag you in something.
 

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I just hate what the "like" thing has become.

What I mean by that is when a friend of yours likes something of a friend of theirs. it shows up in your newsfeed "So and so liked this." Then you have photos and other stuff of people you don't know and will likely never meet in your feed.

I don't care to see that stuff.
 

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I appreciate privacy, and respect others' privacy? I don't find it appropriate for someone to breach others' privacy?

I'm confused as to how it's seen as such an odd thing to be concerned with, but that's the world today.
I'm not sure how tagging invades your privacy.
 

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Because that picture that he knowingly took with those people wasn't meant to be shared with others and was just supposed to be looked at in private by the person that took it.

Here we go. Wrong.

I can't believe this is so hard for people to understand, and why it's so astonishing when someone points out what things like social media can do.

I literally just recently did a company-wide 'training' on the etiquette and problems with social media.

I'm talking about people that I was FB friends with, 'checking me in' if we were out to eat at a restaurant/bar, concert, whatever, when I haven't even been around them or talked to them the whole night, and most certainly haven't gotten a picture taken with them. I didn't catch the 'selfie' fever and find that to be pathetic behavior as well, but I'm sure that's too far of a concept in this discussion as well.

It's not 'invading' privacy like being snoopy; it's breaching in the sense of disclosing personal information without my consent: announcing one's personal life to the public. There are people in the world that think that's a normal concern, right? I hope?

Aside from valuing privacy, I happen to work in a field where being tagged/'checked in' at a bar can easily be seen as inappropriate, even if I was there early in the night. FWIW I've actually had to make requests for people to not photograph me or check me in since they couldn't figure out that doing that may affect other areas of life. I'm fascinated with people not being able to just be present somewhere without having to seek approval for it. That shows a complete lack of awareness and very poor social skills.
 

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You can also set it so that it will ask for your permission first whenever someone tries to tag you in something.

Last I knew, yes, to/on YOUR own page; they can still do anything on theirs.

I'll just stop...these types of discussion make me feel like I'm on FB or something.
 

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Here we go. Wrong.

I can't believe this is so hard for people to understand, and why it's so astonishing when someone points out what things like social media can do.

I literally just recently did a company-wide 'training' on the etiquette and problems with social media.

I'm talking about people that I was FB friends with, 'checking me in' if we were out to eat at a restaurant/bar, concert, whatever, when I haven't even been around them or talked to them the whole night, and most certainly haven't gotten a picture taken with them. I didn't catch the 'selfie' fever and find that to be pathetic behavior as well, but I'm sure that's too far of a concept in this discussion as well.

It's not 'invading' privacy like being snoopy; it's breaching in the sense of disclosing personal information without my consent: announcing one's personal life to the public. There are people in the world that think that's a normal concern, right? I hope?

Aside from valuing privacy, I happen to work in a field where being tagged/'checked in' at a bar can easily be seen as inappropriate, even if I was there early in the night. FWIW I've actually had to make requests for people to not photograph me or check me in since they couldn't figure out that doing that may affect other areas of life. I'm fascinated with people not being able to just be present somewhere without having to seek approval for it. That shows a complete lack of awareness and very poor social skills.
Number one when in public you lose any expectation of privacy. Number two are you saying people tag you as being somewhere without you being with them? If so that's a problem with your friends.

Lastly what could you possibly do that you can't go to a bar? That's an issue with your job.
 

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Number one when in public you lose any expectation of privacy. Number two are you saying people tag you as being somewhere without you being with them? If so that's a problem with your friends.

Lastly what could you possibly do that you can't go to a bar? That's an issue with your job.

#1 I personally don't lose expectation of privacy in that I don't need all things I'm doing constantly announced.

#2 More like acquaintances in reality that I happened to be FB 'friends' with (basically accepting the 'request' without knowing what they were like--my own fault).

Very different things since FB isn't reality.

I'd say it'd be an issue with a job if they didn't care that you were publicly announcing being at places that are generally associated with alcohol use, etc., regardless of what you were doing there. You may want to look into that.

I've got friends (actual friends) that are in a similar boat and took a similar route.

Back to the original point: the quick fix was to not be on it, which works out very well. Gives me more time to focus on things like stupid arguments on CF.
 

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#1 I personally don't lose expectation of privacy in that I don't need all things I'm doing constantly announced.

#2 More like acquaintances in reality that I happened to be FB 'friends' with (basically accepting the 'request' without knowing what they were like--my own fault).

Very different things since FB isn't reality.

I'd say it'd be an issue with a job if they didn't care that you were publicly announcing being at places that are generally associated with alcohol use, etc., regardless of what you were doing there. You may want to look into that.

I've got friends (actual friends) that are in a similar boat and took a similar route.

Back to the original point: the quick fix was to not be on it, which works out very well. Gives me more time to focus on things like stupid arguments on CF.
If you are working you shouldn't be drinking but otherwise I can't think of a job that you shouldn't be allowed to drink when not working.