Help! I'm Fat - *** Official Exercise and Weight Thread ***

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I thought my gym has had relatively low attendance compared to the expected resolution crowd. Last Saturday I had to go around 9 AM and I thought there would be no way I could get my circuit in, but I didn't have to wait or replace once!

I generally go at low use times, early to mid-afternoon. Only issue I have is during the school breaks over the holidays. Lot's of HS age bros who have to work out in pairs and threes or even fours. They can really block things up. Even if solo the HS kids spend in ordinate amount of time between sets and on social media so can really clog things up around a few popular machines (even with two chest fly machines it a a known bottleneck). The majority of them have terrible form and "cheat" almost every rep to do more weight as that seems REALLY important to them. Wondering if they are all self-taught or somebody really dumb instructed them at some point. Ha, easy for me to say since I HAVE to be careful with two old torn and worn-out rotator cuffs!


Edit: Didn't mean that as a "get off my yard" old man rant. Just an observation and generalization. All seem like decent kids and nobody is really horsing around or anything.
 
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Noticed no posts yet this calendar year. So here goes.

Nothing says ""You've got no life" like being an old man and finding yourself in a gym on a Saturday night.

At least there was no waiting for a machine or a bench or anything. :rolleyes:


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I’ve only missed two days since the start of the new year. I noticed the weekends have really dropped off. I go at 7 when they open, but only like six of us there for the first half hour, unlike around 20 or so in g try he past. Early morning m crowds during the week seem about the same.
 

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I generally go at low use times, early to mid-afternoon. Only issue I have is during the school breaks over the holidays. Lot's of HS age bros who have to work out in pairs and threes or even fours. They can really block things up. Even if solo the HS kids spend in ordinate amount of time between sets and on social media so can really clog things up around a few popular machines (even with two chest fly machines it a a known bottleneck). The majority of them have terrible form and "cheat" almost every rep to do more weight as that seems REALLY important to them. Wondering if they are all self-taught or somebody really dumb instructed them at some point. Ha, easy for me to say since I HAVE to be careful with two old torn and worn-out rotator cuffs!


Edit: Didn't mean that as a "get off my yard" old man rant. Just an observation and generalization. All seem like decent kids and nobody is really horsing around or anything.
I doubt most of them get any actual coaching when it comes to lifting. It's great to find resources on the web or social media, but without some feedback it's really difficult to know what's going on. How something feels can be drastically different than how it looks. Squat depth, back position/posture, bar path, etc.

Mid last year I started filming my first and last set of every exercise. Even without a coach/trainer, it's helped me A TON in getting my mechanics right. I know there's some negative stigma around filming at a public gym (I have a home gym) but it's REALLY helpful for people who are learning. For HSers who tend to lift in packs, it would be really easy to have a friend record them. I highly recommend it.
 
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Interesting discussion about some new science around the importance of sleep. Kinda technical, but still pretty accessible. Basically sleep is when the brain flushes waste (they mention tau, which is one of the contributors to CTE). If you don't get enough of the right kind of sleep, the brain can't flush well enough. Accumulation of waste can lead to increased risk of Alzheimers or Parkinsons. Current sleep meds like Ambien actually disrupt the phases of sleep that flush waste so while the do cause sleep they result in ineffective sleep. Maybe ok for the body, but not for the mind.

I know this isn't weightloss related, but figured the general topic of health was close enough.

 
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The OP avatar looks like Ron Howard's brother....the omnipresent D-list character actor. Just saw him in Backdraft. HIs Waterboy character always makes me laugh because they tried to make him ugly.....lol. I'm too lazy to google his IMDB, but his whole career is example of how nepotistic and incestuous Hollywood has always been. The Good 'ol contributor club.
 

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The OP avatar looks like Ron Howard's brother....the omnipresent D-list character actor. Just saw him in Backdraft. HIs Waterboy character always makes me laugh because they tried to make him ugly.....lol. I'm too lazy to google his IMDB, but his whole career is example of how nepotistic and incestuous Hollywood has always been. The Good 'ol contributor club.

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I doubt most of them get any actual coaching when it comes to lifting. It's great to find resources on the web or social media, but without some feedback it's really difficult to know what's going on. How something feels can be drastically different than how it looks. Squat depth, back position/posture, bar path, etc.

Mid last year I started filming my first and last set of every exercise. Even without a coach/trainer, it's helped me A TON in getting my mechanics right. I know there's some negative stigma around filming at a public gym (I have a home gym) but it's REALLY helpful for people who are learning. For HSers who tend to lift in packs, it would be really easy to have a friend record them. I highly recommend it.

Got a free overview from NIL last winter at resort gym in Mexico. He's an engineer but also turned pro-body builder and coaches others. Gave me some good tips but also complimented me on my form. I think that goes to me learning on old Nautilus equipment 40 years. The whole circuit training concept of those was to minimized waiting between sets and the machines we pretty well design with their kidney bean shape cams that sort of resisted "throwing" the weigh. Also, being a lean guy built for 10K racing I was never going to be a guy that lifted yuge weights so the temptation to do weight levels I could not handle was pretty much non-existent. Today i do a mix of free weights, cable pulls and set machines.
 
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Does anyone have experience with the new electromagnetic equipment like Tonal or Speediance? I've watched the Garage Gym Review guy on YouTube, and he seems to be impressed with the equipment. I have had gym memberships in the past and I know from experience that it just isn't convenient for me, and I barely go. But I do have bands and light dumbbells in my basement, and I do a good job of using them every day. I don't have a lot of space, and I am looking into the Speediance as an alternative to trying to squeeze a power rack and more equipment into my basement.
 

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If you're concerned about "ultraprocessed foods," which have no scientific definition, I just stumbled across this tool:


It uses GroceryDB, which has ingredient lists for over 50k common products, and creates a normalized score for each. You can compare which foods are more or less processed.
 

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The OP avatar looks like Ron Howard's brother....the omnipresent D-list character actor. Just saw him in Backdraft. HIs Waterboy character always makes me laugh because they tried to make him ugly.....lol. I'm too lazy to google his IMDB, but his whole career is example of how nepotistic and incestuous Hollywood has always been. The Good 'ol contributor club.
My Avatar is Hunter Dekkers from the Snapchat video that he admitted to gambling on ISU football games.
 
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I just shake my head and chuckle at people that religiously weigh themselves everyday at the gym. I'll do it once a week just to see how I am doing but everyday.....nope.
 

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I just shake my head and chuckle at people that religiously weigh themselves everyday at the gym. I'll do it once a week just to see how I am doing but everyday.....nope.
I'm one of the people that has to weigh myself everyday.
 

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Currently a soft 280 5'10.

Started my first 10 week session at farrells. My biggest challenge will be eating clean and staying off the booze.

Goal weight is to be 220lbs.

Wish me luck.
Im doing the same, started at 283 on the first, down to 269 this morning. Look up Tasty Shredz, helping me a ton. Also be sure to track your Macros!

Good luck my friend! You can do it
 

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Currently a soft 280 5'10.

Started my first 10 week session at farrells. My biggest challenge will be eating clean and staying off the booze.

Goal weight is to be 220lbs.

Wish me luck.
I did Farrells in spring 2019. It was truly life changing for me. I started at 221 lbs and 26% BF. I won the $1000 by losing 21 lbs in 10 weeks and kept going. After a year,
I was down to 174 lbs and 8% BF.

Admittedly, I truly went “extreme.” I didn’t touch a single carb for 6 months. I was religious about working out 6 days a week and some days would do back to back classes (6am and 7am). Our FXB would also do 4 hour workouts on special days like Mother’s Day, Black Friday, etc.

I had a great coach who taught me all about macros and nutrition. While I no longer do FXB, it was key to kick starting a fitness journey at age 35. I’m now a fit 40 year old who has strong fitness habits established as part of my life.

Good luck! Let me know if I can help.
 
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Currently a soft 280 5'10.

Started my first 10 week session at farrells. My biggest challenge will be eating clean and staying off the booze.

Goal weight is to be 220lbs.

Wish me luck.
Get it.
 

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By early April this year I was the heaviest I’ve ever been at ~270. Exercise has been hit or miss but I know the biggest problem is diet, in particular binging on treats after dinner (if it were up to me we’d keep candy etc out of the house, but my wife and two young kids would lose their minds).

Luckily around the same time my wife was unhappy with her health so we’ve been supporting each other to eat better (or avoid dessert binges) and exercise consistently.

I’m down about 12 pounds since then. No real firm weight goal, but aiming to keep up consistent workouts 2-3 times per week (I’ve been good there for about the last year), avoid unhealthy binge habits, and if I keep that up I should keep losing about a pound a week. Hoping that as my kids (currently 4 and 6) keep getting more independent it will get easier to exercise consistently - I love it and worked out 5-6x per week before kids, but that’s not realistic for now.
Time for a follow-up accountability post:

The good:

1.) kept up pretty consistent exercise routine through 2024, managing 84 total aerobic activities for the year (thank you, Strava Year in Review)
2.) late summer, found a good local friend for weekly scheduled road bike rides, which helped with consistency
3.) in the fall, starting using Huel for workday lunches, which seems like a better solution than eating at the work cafeteria every day as I was previously
4.) hard to say for sure, but it seems like kids bedtime routine has gotten more consistent in the last few months (more on that below)

The bad

1.) not sure when, but at some point fell back into nightly binge eating and came into the 2024 holidays back at 270+ pounds

Going forward

1.) I can see a clear correlation between wanting/‘needing’ to stay up significantly past my kids bedtime (especially problematic when I feel work deadline stress), and a desire to eat sugary foods to rebound and feel energized after their bedtime. Making a conscientious effort to go to bed between 9:30-10pm. I’ve been doing it consistently since the holidays and I seem to sleep better, wake up earlier, and feel more rested through the day
2.) working to maintain healthy breakfast/lunch habits, and avoid post dinner dessert binges
3.) starting lifting again about once a week - this is never my highest exercise priority since I’m more concerned about weight and cardiovascular health, but I know it makes me feels better physically and I want to continue to aim for 1 lifting session per week
4.) I’ve been good with the above for about a month and have already seen positive results, but I’m fully aware the struggle never ends :)

Looking back through this I’m realizing just how critical my sleep habits are, lol. That temptation to have some ‘me time’ after the kids go to bed is the gosh darn devil
 
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I just shake my head and chuckle at people that religiously weigh themselves everyday at the gym. I'll do it once a week just to see how I am doing but everyday.....nope.

I do about once a week but really don't know why.

My weight currently isn't terrible especially for post-holiday but my waistline is not good.
 
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