my point is all these people that go into the office want some sort of war hero award for going in and half of them waste more time in the office on extended lunches, chit chat, smoke breaks and live and die by the clock. Half the people that complain are the ones that have a job that actually requires being there or has ROI with what your stating.
To answer your part about face to face interaction:
the building I am assigned to go into the office to has ~1,000 people that go there.
I have nothing to do with any of them.
My small team of 10 is located in DC, Maryland, NC, CO, AZ, FL, TN, MN, VA, TX.
If/when I am required to go back into the office (sounds like my company is going to be soon), I am driving to my assigned office, taking Teams calls with my team around the country and customers around the world.
So maybe there isn't a one size fits all approach is all i was getting at.
And yes...... I raised 3 kids commuting, dropping off at daycare, and learned how to put pants on, etc, so I get how that works, thanks.