Thanks, but since I am going through all of this with my mom, we decided not to make our children have to do the same with us. Our goal originally was just to redo our wills which were 30 years old and were written when our children where small. Now they are grown, married and have children of their own, so it should be updated. When we spoke to our lawyer, she said that many people including her parents have moved to a trust for their estate, the main reason is cost after your death. Drawing up a new will would have cost us a couple hundred dollars, but she stated many lawyers today will charge a percent of the estate if there is just a will, which in my mother's case is costing us $9,000, ours would be well over double that. So, we figured it's a lot cheaper to spend the $2,000 now, then have our kids pay out the much larger number in the future. If having a trust shields our assists from nursing homes in the future, I can live with that also.