They do but - bad calls are gonna happen. Hopefully not to that level because that was insanely bad.
There are things we are never going to be able to do anything about - bad calls and injuries. You never want either and you hope neither ever are going to happen to a key player - or anyone, or at any time really - but at a key moment or to a key player.
The calls do matter - but so does our own missed opportunities. Both are true. Its not a great analogy but right now my mother is in all likelihood dying of cancer and a bunch of other stuff but she still has good days. She still called me early on my birthday and sent me a card from the hospital when other family members did neither, again, bad analogy but my point is the response to crap matters.
Now, granted, that's life to football so its not a great analogy. But my point is - yes, the refs screwed us. Yes, that was some of the worse officiating I have ever seen in my life of watching or coaching football. Yes, they should never be allowed to step onto a football field with a whistle again in their miserable lives as officials. All grace to them as people but as officials, they should never be allowed to work again as refs IMO.
BUT - were there opportunities for us to over come those calls? Yes, yes there were. That's all I'm saying. The refs are the obvious and rightly so, scapegoat. But that doesn't mean we still didn't make enough mistakes to lose. Because just as we are never going to play perfect, refs are never going to call a perfect game either. There will be more blown calls and missed calls throughout the season. And there's nothing we are ever going to be able to do that - but we can correct an issue here or an issue there and those horrible calls are easier to over come. You never want them but its like a bird crapping on your head, its always possible if you're outside