Honestly, personally, I'm kind of "giving up" the legalism of the Catholic faith for a bit. I grew up in a parish that was very legalistic...you darn sure went to church on Sunday, and you better not eat meat on Friday, and you did the moves all by the book...but there was very little faith outside of that. People acted no differently than non-christians during the other days of the week...like faith stopped at the church doors. I saw thru that particular act when I was in college and unfortunately chalked it up to 'religion is BS' and left my faith mostly behind.
I came back to my faith a while ago in a way not associated with 'church'...and have been working on building something on my own so that I won't fall back into the phony faith where if you do the actions you can act however you want aside of that. I'm attending mass because I think studying the word and worshipping in a community are both needed things, but I'm still trying to keep a bit of distance to make sure I end up in a strong faith community, not one that does lots of dances to appear more holy.