The lovely and talented MrsPhaedrus is a pilot. Perhaps she might chime in on this topic, once she gets up this morning.
Myself, I've been in a number of ground and air incidents with aircraft. I think you'd be surprised how often no-one gets hurt.
BTW - MrsPhaedrus is the best pilot I know. She is good, because she realizes her limitations and never attempts to fly outside her own skillset. That, and she takes great pride in making perfect landings.
Wow, somebody is working hard for a happy ending on V-day.