I stopped reading midway through page 2, so maybe this has been posted. I've been in FD for almost four years. Same deal; while collar career in a blue collar town. I don't love Dodge, but it's been fine. If you're looking for $150k+ homes, look in the Knollcrest area, $70-150k, look around Cooper Elementary. You're across town from the problematic areas. My son goes to Cooper, and I have nephews that have been through St. Edmonds. They are fine schools. Hell, I know of a duplex that's coming up for rent in Knollcrest soon if you're interested.
I'm there because I like my job. If you have a reason to live in Dodge, it's as good or bad as you make it.