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Dandy is this a friend from your hometown? If so you would pry be the most dressed up as most people just wear overalls wear you are from

White long sleeve button up, those shorts and boat shoes. Bam.

Or dress up for wedding and then change before reception


A wedding I was at last weekend a guy was wearing plaid shorts and a Hurley shirt. Don't do that.
 
cyrocksmypants said:
You would make an awful psychological study.
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I'm not pyschopathic. I wonder if it means that I'm fatalistic?

Hubby laughs at me because I used to love to go out hunting with him, had a little 410 that I used...loved to watch our Brittanies work the fields & brush. However, although I've destroyed many many skeet and killed the heck out of all kinds of boxes & bottles, I have never been able to pull the trigger on anything with eyeballs. I don't know why. I have no problem at all watching other people shoot game (for FOOD, not for trophies), I understand that all of the meat I eat has to be killed by somebody, I can pluck & clean a bird (hubby does the deer). I really can't explain it...but I seriously don't think I would be able to push either button.

Sorry if I blew your study...
 
mtowncyclone13 said:
Every woman I've spoken with about this says in the long run most of it doesn't matter. Barring something really good or really bad no one but you will remember the colors of your wedding. No one but you will remember the dinner options. My wife said when the wedding day actually arrived she just stopped caring about the details and it was a weight off of her shoulders.
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She's right! I have found that it's the silly booboos that you remember more than the perfect scented candles at the reception. When you add in the fact that hubby's sons were the "best men", his daughters were my bridesmaids, and my sons were the groomsmen...and they ranged in age from 13-19...having an imperfect wedding was a foregone conclusion for us! :)
 
ImJustKCClone said:
I'm not pyschopathic. I wonder if it means that I'm fatalistic?

Hubby laughs at me because I used to love to go out hunting with him, had a little 410 that I used...loved to watch our Brittanies work the fields & brush. However, although I've destroyed many many skeet and killed the heck out of all kinds of boxes & bottles, I have never been able to pull the trigger on anything with eyeballs. I don't know why. I have no problem at all watching other people shoot game (for FOOD, not for trophies), I understand that all of the meat I eat has to be killed by somebody, I can pluck & clean a bird (hubby does the deer). I really can't explain it...but I seriously don't think I would be able to push either button.

Sorry if I blew your study...
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Ah, but being a psychopath isn't a bad thing, per se. A psychopath isn't someone who's going to go on a murder rampage. True, most serial killers are psychopaths, but not most psychopaths are serial killers. There are many people that do good that are psychopaths, including police officers, military personnel, firemen, etc. You probably personally know and are friends with a few psychopaths and don't even know it.
 
cyrocksmypants said:
Ah, but being a psychopath isn't a bad thing, per se. A psychopath isn't someone who's going to go on a murder rampage. True, most serial killers are psychopaths, but not most psychopaths are serial killers. There are many people that do good that are psychopaths, including police officers, military personnel, firemen, etc. You probably personally know and are friends with a few psychopaths and don't even know it.
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I sense a venn diagram coming our way soon
 
Cyclones_R_GR8 said:
I sense a venn diagram coming our way soon
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If I was tech savvy enough to whip one up on my phone, I would! (Imagine a large circle and a smaller circle. The large circle would be psychopaths. The smaller circle would be serial killers. The small circle would mostly be in the large circle with just a small sliver outside of it. )
 
cyrocksmypants said:
If I was tech savvy enough to whip one up on my phone, I would! (Imagine a large circle and a smaller circle. The large circle would be psychopaths. The smaller circle would be serial killers. The small circle would mostly be in the large circle with just a small sliver outside of it. )
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Don't forget circles for the cops and firemen as well
 
cyrocksmypants said:
Ah, but being a psychopath isn't a bad thing, per se. A psychopath isn't someone who's going to go on a murder rampage. True, most serial killers are psychopaths, but not most psychopaths are serial killers. There are many people that do good that are psychopaths, including police officers, military personnel, firemen, etc. You probably personally know and are friends with a few psychopaths and don't even know it.
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Dexter.
 
CloneinWDSM said:
Dandy is this a friend from your hometown? If so you would pry be the most dressed up as most people just wear overalls wear you are from

White long sleeve button up, those shorts and boat shoes. Bam.

Or dress up for wedding and then change before reception


A wedding I was at last weekend a guy was wearing plaid shorts and a Hurley shirt. Don't do that.
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Yes, he is from my home town. He's a couple years older than me. I agree that if I wore those shorts and a button up I would be pretty dressed up for a summer wedding in 95 degree temps. I disagree that most people wear overalls where I'm from. You act like we grew up in different worlds although it was only 38 miles. Plus I don't think many people from my home town are going. I think it will be a fairly small wedding.

Light grey short sleeve button up, those shorts, and boat shoes. Bam.
 
DandyCyclone said:
Yes, he is from my home town. He's a couple years older than me. I agree that if I wore those shorts and a button up I would be pretty dressed up for a summer wedding in 95 degree temps. I disagree that most people wear overalls where I'm from. You act like we grew up in different worlds although it was only 38 miles. Plus I don't think many people from my home town are going. I think it will be a fairly small wedding.

Light grey short sleeve button up, those shorts, and boat shoes. Bam.
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You're right. It wasn't overalls, just cutoffs.
 
the day of the wedding, I still remember being mildly upset about my bouquet. I had sent a million pictures to the florist lady (and she had even done my SIL's bouquet and I was like THAT. I want THAT.) and yet it still had all those nasty two-tone greens sticking out everywhere. My mom fixed some but I'm still sad that my bouquet wasn't what I had wanted. That sounds completely Bridezilla, but I promise you, it wasn't, haha.

We did end up with an extra corsage somehow and I found out later my MIL was freaking out about it. That and that we didn't get corsages for the cake cutters (who, btw, we made that decision by looking at pictures of DH's brother's wedding and seeing that they didn't have corsages!). BFF and my mom went all King Solomon on it telling my MIL they would just cut it in half and give it to both, haha. Somehow it ended up on my SIL, which was fine, she just wasn't part of the wedding so I always found that odd.

The reception was awesome but I wish I had spent less time during the day worrying about other people being happy/getting along. That and I wish the hotel hadn't f'd up our room. :realmad:
 
ImJustKCClone said:
She's right! I have found that it's the silly booboos that you remember more than the perfect scented candles at the reception. When you add in the fact that hubby's sons were the "best men", his daughters were my bridesmaids, and my sons were the groomsmen...and they ranged in age from 13-19...having an imperfect wedding was a foregone conclusion for us! :)
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Nope, sounds like it was just perfect for you!
 
cowgirl836 said:
the day of the wedding, I still remember being mildly upset about my bouquet. I had sent a million pictures to the florist lady (and she had even done my SIL's bouquet and I was like THAT. I want THAT.) and yet it still had all those nasty two-tone greens sticking out everywhere. My mom fixed some but I'm still sad that my bouquet wasn't what I had wanted. That sounds completely Bridezilla, but I promise you, it wasn't, haha.

We did end up with an extra corsage somehow and I found out later my MIL was freaking out about it. That and that we didn't get corsages for the cake cutters (who, btw, we made that decision by looking at pictures of DH's brother's wedding and seeing that they didn't have corsages!). BFF and my mom went all King Solomon on it telling my MIL they would just cut it in half and give it to both, haha. Somehow it ended up on my SIL, which was fine, she just wasn't part of the wedding so I always found that odd.

The reception was awesome but I wish I had spent less time during the day worrying about other people being happy/getting along. That and I wish the hotel hadn't f'd up our room. :realmad:
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This is what I am hoping everyone will do once I show up in shorts.
 
DandyCyclone said:
This is what I am hoping everyone will do once I show up in shorts.
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ha, but the part right after that was the important part - worrying if they were happy/getting along. Aside from the laugh about the jorts guy, I didn't notice anything anyone else wore, nor would I have cared - I just wish I had cared less about other peoples' attitudes!
 
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