Ya I don't think I need to learn about myself. I need to find women who aren't unreliable and can support themselves. Seems women at this age are either single with kids, crazy, or don't know what they want.The GREATEST value of internet dating for me was simply the experience. It was good practice. Set low expectations (the gift that keeps on giving) and have fun with it. Many of the relationships will flame out but hopefully you learn something about yourself or at least what you don't want in an SO. If you find one learning from it then I would say it's valuable.