Gabby Petito found dead in Wyoming

Honestly I haven't ever used a internet dating service. I'm getting to the point where I really don't have a choice. I prefer that it would be an organic kind of thing that I meet through a club I'm involved in or through friends or whatever but it just doesn't seem to be happening. I really hate dating, especially with people you don't know or have any history with because it's always forced and contrived.

I have someone I'm seeing but she's poly so I don't expect it to become anything substantial.


brother, you have the internet.... billions of people interconnected... you can find the right person for you!

hoping on an airplane to visit someone you've been chatting with/texting?

VAXXED WAXXED READY TO SMASH

get that willy wet and get that emotional linked you've been looking for.
 
Interesting background on internet dating right out of college. System architect, programmer, operations of the 2nd computerized dating system in the U.S. (pre-internet). Still stand by the basic algorithm as the best matching algorithm. Even today. It was so good, it ran the company out of business (ie match em and they're no longer a client-couldn't find single people fast enough to maintain business model). If I was a decade later, there'd be no match.com. Seriously. And I'd have an athletics facility named after me ;) . 35 was the convergence of sex popularity. Pre-35, females linearly more popular. Post 35, men linearly more popular. A true graphic 'X'.
Epitaph: met wife on match.com
Sorry what?
 
Interesting background on internet dating right out of college. System architect, programmer, operations of the 2nd computerized dating system in the U.S. (pre-internet). Still stand by the basic algorithm as the best matching algorithm. Even today. It was so good, it ran the company out of business (ie match em and they're no longer a client-couldn't find single people fast enough to maintain business model). If I was a decade later, there'd be no match.com. Seriously. And I'd have an athletics facility named after me ;) . 35 was the convergence of sex popularity. Pre-35, females linearly more popular. Post 35, men linearly more popular. A true graphic 'X'.
Epitaph: met wife on match.com

In English please
 
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peoples mental states not good right now? political stuff?

I've been off for a couple years, but it just felt like a lot of games. Women were incredibly superficial (don't doubt men are too). Dating sites putting up fake profiles to keep you interested. Almost never failed I would start receiving messages at about the time my subscription was about to end when I hadn't been active on my account.
 
So the thread about a woman being murdered by her fiancé has now turned into a conversation about dating sites? Ah CF you never fail to disappoint.
Yeah I was feeling a little bit weird about it myself as well. I started a thread a while back asking for online dating advice I was just too lazy to dig around and find it and suggest we go there instead of in a thread about a poor unfortunate dead woman.
 
Honestly I haven't ever used a internet dating service. I'm getting to the point where I really don't have a choice. I prefer that it would be an organic kind of thing that I meet through a club I'm involved in or through friends or whatever but it just doesn't seem to be happening. I really hate dating, especially with people you don't know or have any history with because it's always forced and contrived.

I have someone I'm seeing but she's poly so I don't expect it to become anything substantial.

Met my wife that way, 15 years ago. It allows you to determine what exactly you're looking for, and sort through the personalities before even meeting in person. I was your age then, and at that age, you pretty much know what you're looking for, and what you won't put up with.
 
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Been there, I didnt get married until 40. I ended up marring 10 years younger. So far the waiting was worth it.

Married at 40 as well. Dated a LOT of crazy over my years but refused to settle. Holy **** I'm blessed to have avoided some of those landmines. Overall, every one of those experiences taught me something about myself and what I wanted. Eventually I met the one.
 
Honestly I haven't ever used a internet dating service. I'm getting to the point where I really don't have a choice. I prefer that it would be an organic kind of thing that I meet through a club I'm involved in or through friends or whatever but it just doesn't seem to be happening. I really hate dating, especially with people you don't know or have any history with because it's always forced and contrived.

I have someone I'm seeing but she's poly so I don't expect it to become anything substantial.

The GREATEST value of internet dating for me was simply the experience. It was good practice. Set low expectations (the gift that keeps on giving) and have fun with it. Many of the relationships will flame out but hopefully you learn something about yourself or at least what you don't want in an SO. If you find one learning from it then I would say it's valuable.
 
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