so I'm not cool with my slang, and possibly racist if I'm catching KC's drift. I do like the change to ***** though. I saw this linked somewhere last week, it's pretty much my strategy for using the word.
http://best-of-text-posts.tumblr.com/post/122441887765/things-i-will-not-call-you-a-*****-for
http://best-of-text-posts.tumblr.com/post/122441887765/things-i-will-not-call-you-a-*****-for