On cleaning.....first, I'll admit I'm OCPD (much different than OCD, you can look it up), so I tend to be a neatnik. The vixen never uses the word "cleaning" without modifying it with the word "thorough". This intrigued me after we got married.
However, I find that her cleaning style, while excellent, is not exactly thorough. And I'm talking about stuff most people wouldn't even think about, like dusting the top of the base trim, the panels in the interior doors, cleaning dust off the top of the shower enclosure, etc.
And yes, I know I'm obsessive, hence the OCPD in the opening paragraph. My "thorough" is just a bit more "thorough" than hers.
My husband would be a lot more organized and cleaner than me.... then Z came along. I think we have a good compromise at the moment.
I did notice the kitchen light needs dusted this weekend though. I told Z "do you see how it looks fuzzy on the outside? It needs dusted badly."