CG, I know you like to have things organized and planned out to the nth degree, but the truth is planning and adult schedules go out the window when you start having kids. That's NOT a bad thing. It's simply the way things are. Your little bundle will require the lion's share of the available time and focus because they can't do things for themselves...and sometimes other things have to go on hold for a couple of years (or longer with additional kids). You'll find new ways to exercise (like Rev doing pushups with Z weight on her back). You and DH may change your hours a bit at work. You may find a VB or Dodgeball league where they have a kiddy corral, or maybe you'll alternate playing time. There's all kinds of ways you might adapt. The one thing you won't be able to do is plan it all out in advance.