Outback owner here. Have a beard and love women, so I guess you could say I'm in the hippie/lesbian demographic.
Great car, amazing traction on gravel/snow, gas efficient for an all-time AWD. I would recommend you get the 6 cylinder if you're likely to go through many hills or towing anything. Acceleration on the 6 cilinder is smoother and quieter. If you're not loading much, the 4 cylinder will do just fine (I have a 4 cylinder and a family of four and haven't had any issues). Don't know if you use your truck for towing anything heavy, but can tell you that the tongue weight for towing is a 3,500lbs max, so keep that in mind.